Best Ways to deal With His Bachelor Party

By  | 

We know that you’re probably dreading the fact that his bachelor party is just around the corner and we’ve got good news for you- there’s a 90% chance that while you’re letting your fears run wild about what ‘could’ happen, that the guys are actually planning a very tame bachelor party instead! We covered two important points in the first article and we’ll take a look at two more here:

bachelor-party

Is it true that what happens at a bachelor party is never spoken about later?

Well, like we said before, a bachelor party is a 100% guy-guy thing and just like you enjoy giggling over a few secrets with your girls, so does he. However, just because plenty of Hollywood movies have made bachelor parties seem larger than life, it doesn’t mean that every guy who actually has one is a ‘bad’ guy or even a Casanova. Guys these days enjoy going on adventure trips together, signing up for a class (the idea of guys signing up for a cooking seminar may sound unbelievable but it does happen!), going river rafting and what not. The whole idea as we have said before is to bond together, share a few good laughs, and maybe even a couple of drinks over a good conversation but above all, to have fun memories that will stay for life.

bachelor-party

What can I do to stop thinking about what he could be doing at his bachelor party?

Well, why don’t you have a bachelorette party of your own? That way you’d be busy and too excited about what your friends are planning for you to be thinking about what your groom is or isn’t doing. Even if you don’t have a bachelorette party, here’s what you definitely shouldn’t be doing at any cost- don’t keep checking on him by sending repeated messages, checking his online Whatsapp status or by calling him to know where he is. This only makes him feel more uncomfortable because you make it obvious that he cannot be trusted. Make plans beforehand so that even if his party is just for one day, you will be busy and wont feel alone.

Has it ever occurred to you that maybe your groom is a bit anxious about what may take place at your bachelorette party just as you are about his? By communicating about each other’s fears and anxieties, you make dealing with this kind of a situation much easier to get through.

Images Courtesy:

Mahaveer Photography

Radha Photos

Back to Articles